ATTORNEY v. MEDIATOR v. DIY

Read about your options below and decide if you want to hire an attorney.


  • Each party hires their own attorney.
  • Attorneys gather information from their clients and fill out and file litigation forms with the court.
  • Attorneys engage in discovery. During discovery, the attorneys will draft documents, review the information provided by the other party, and go back and forth for up to 6 months asking each other for information.
  • Attorneys negotiate and attempt to resolve the case.
  • If the attorneys cannot help resolve the case, it will often be referred to mediation.
  • If an agreement cannot be reached, the attorneys will begin filing motions with the court.
  • Court dates are set, and attorneys prepare their cases.
  • Documents and arguments are presented in court.
  • Witnesses or experts may be called to testify.
  • The judge and/or jury will hear the case and render judgment based on their opinion of your case.
  • Mediator is an independent, neutral third party.
  • Mediator helps parties come to a decision that they agree on.
  • Mediation focuses on identifying and negotiating issues.
  • Parties have complete control over the agreement and decisions.
  • The mediator actively encourages the negotiations.
  • Mediation aims to resolve the dispute out of court.
  • Help you decide if you want to file a lawsuit.
  • Help guide you through filing a lawsuit without an attorney (where to go, what forms you need, how to complete service of process, etc.)
  • Help you understand court deadlines and put together the paperwork you will need for each step in the litigation process.
  • Help you prepare for court.

  • Parties gather information and fill out and file all the forms the court requires.
  • Parties engage in discovery. During discovery, each party will draft documents, review the information provided by the other party and use that information to file motions with the court.
  • Parties negotiate and attempt to resolve the issues.
  • If the parties cannot resolve the case, it will often be referred to mediation.
  • If an agreement cannot be reached, the case goes to court.
  • Court dates are set, and the parties prepare their cases.
  • Documents and arguments are presented in court.
  • Witnesses or experts may be called to testify.
  • The judge and/or jury will hear the case and render judgment based on their opinion of your case.